Thursday, September 27, 2012

Us Right Now, September 2012


R is liking fourth grade, though all the cursive practice is frustrating for her. She took a break from piano this summer and just started back up again. As always, she loves any kind of creative play and is especially loving writing essays right now. (Poor kid. The child of two English teachers will never be normal.)

S is in kindergarten and loves it. He can read books by himself now and has worked really hard at learning to read. We routinely praise his efforts these days.

J will resume his master's next summer when he writes his thesis. As usual, he loves his teaching assignment, loves his classes, loves his job. He is truly a master of his trade.

Me? Well I am adjusting to a new position. It's temporary - only a year - at a middle school as a dean. There are certainly some things I love about the job, things I thought I wouldn't like. For example, I like middle school kids. And I like them a lot. They are still kids; they still play at recess. They are still willing to learn about their behavior. I never thought I would like a small school, but I get it now - I already know many students by name, which wouldn't happen at a school with over 2000 students. Because of the size, I can easily identify students who need some extra attention, see them in the halls regularly, and so on.

There are elements that have really challenged me, too. The adjustment hasn't been a simple one, that's for sure. I went from working at a school where I had a lot of friends, where I had a voice in what I did, but also in the direction of the school at large. As a new, temporary employee, my friendships are few and my role and vision are limited. On top of that, my hours are longer than I had expected; consequently, my goal to refocus on my family for this year has had to be readjusted.

Nevertheless, I am really glad I took the position. I get to learn from two different, though talented, administrators, and I get to see a different side of education on a day-to-day basis.

I am also working on getting my life organized again now that my master's is over. There is a lot of neglect around here - lots of weeds, dust, and piles of paper. Someday, I will feel I have conquered and not been conquered.

As a family, we are trying to figure out how to fit other organized activities into our kids' days. Between homework and piano, there doesn't seem to be much time. I know it sounds silly, but it's true. A musical instrument is a daily commitment, and homework for a scattered fourth grader takes hours.

I am glad to be blogging again.

Happy Thursday!

Sunday, September 23, 2012

My Hero


There are a small handful of living people I would like to meet: Alice Walker, Arundhati Roy, Thich Nhat Hanh, and Timothy O'Brien. Friday night I had the amazing opportunity to meet Timothy O'Brien, author of one of my favorite books of all time: The Things They Carried, a book about the Vietnam War that I blogged about here. Incline Village read this book for their community read and invited O'Brien to speak at Sierra Nevada College for an evening.

Jason and I, giddy with excitement, arrived hours early. As soon as we arrived, we saw O'Brien from a distance in his trademark outfit of jeans, blazer and baseball cap. We were lucky enough to have him sign a copy of Going After Cacciato before the talk, which meant we got to have a short conversation with him about teaching his books.

The best part of the evening, however, was listening to O'Brien talk about his experiences. As I sit here and type this, I struggle because what I really want is to transport everyone I know back to that evening to hear O'Brien speak. I have written countless paragraphs that I subsequently deleted because I am unable to capture the essence of that evening.

So instead of trying, I will leave you with a quote that has echoed through my weekend: "Bullets and bombs can kill enemies. Yes, that is true. But bullets and bombs can can also manufacture enemies."